Personalised Experience
BESPOKE JOURNEYS TO NEW CHAPTERS
Private. Structured. Built around you. Available internationally.
The Importance of Having Someone to Trust
When I was searching for my own next chapter, I wished I had someone who’d already been through the fire, who I could trust, who could explain to me in practical terms what this journey is about, and how to best approach it. Such clarity would have saved me a good year or two of silent struggle.
That’s why I take real pride, and genuine joy, in designing tailor-made journeys for men coming from corporate and business life. I understand the pressure of building a brand or a company, the weight of a hard-earned reputation, and the quiet complexity of being a son, a husband, and a father at the same time.
My own path pushed me to test what truly works for finding clarity and direction. Along the way, I met men with radically different stories — and I turned what I learned into a simple, effective process: grounded tools, clear steps, and real integration into daily life. It’s the same approach that has supported hundreds of men over the past few years — helping them to come back stronger and to have more impact on their businesses and people around them.
While limited in availability, I am flexible to travel for personal sessions and tailor made events, and I do online consultations as well. My clients are based across Los Angeles, Washington, Amsterdam, and Kuala Lumpur — and the work travels well.
What extra care can you expect from Bespoke Journey
Direct access to a thought and sparring partner who went through the process and knows how to make real changes in life.
Access to more effective practices and techniques I do not use in group sessions.
Start with a deep diagnostics using three different tools - just like in business, the more clarity we have, the better we can customise the journey.
Access to once-in-a-lifetime adventure and curated experts from my international network.
Your Questions, Answered
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Session Length: 75–90 minutes.
Frequency: Weekly or bi-weekly, depending on intensity.
Support: Voice notes and messages between sessions (with healthy boundaries).
Tools and practices: simple, effective, measurable.
Immersion: Optional half-day, full-day, or retreat experiences (e.g., Costa Rica, nature work).
Optional community intro: if you’d benefit from being in contact with other grounded men.
Expert Network: Access to special sessions hosted by proven experts from my international network for specific needs.
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01. The Chemistry Call (Go/No-Go) The most fundamental part is whether we click or not. We meet for 30–60 minutes, preferably in person in a place we can relax (coffee or a walk) or on an informal video call. We get to know each other, and discuss your journey so far. If we click, we proceed. If not, no hard feelings.
02. The Proposal & Alignment I create a personalised proposal based on our talk. We may have one or two more relaxed discussions to explore key themes. There is no rush. You take a week to decide. You must feel a genuine "calling" to commit.
03. Initial Diagnosis for Better Self-Awareness We use three specific techniques to :
Nervous System Regulation: Immediate relief and a solid ground for work.
Typology Assessment: Understanding why you react the way you do and where your energy leaks are.
The 360 View: I conduct private calls with people close to you (with permission) to get a different perspective on your needs.
04. Life Audit Respecting and keeping what gives you strength, letting go of what drains you, and bringing back what you might have left behind but is a source of your joy and passion.
05. New Foundations and Direction We build a direction that feels right, key principles that makes you decisions easy, a way to use your talents better. You will leave with a clear plan to execute, and a cheat sheet for daily life: who you are becoming, principles to return to when under pressure, and key daily practices to keep your growth going.
06. Follow up and Integration Making it happen in real life and sticking to your new plan is what makes all the difference. Specific individual sessions, and potentially accessing the community of other men who went through the same journey will be planned.
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Clarity on the questions that keep looping in your mind
Self-awareness that gives you power back in daily life
Tools you’ll actually use — so the change sticks
A calmer nervous system, steadier relationships, and a direction you trust
Relief, truth, and a solid path without being judged.
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Realistically, minimum 3 months. Average 6 months. Immediate relief often comes fast. True shift takes time.
Most men can do this without disrupting life. Sessions are 75–90 minutes weekly/biweekly, plus small practices designed to fit your schedule. The goal isn’t more workload — it’s less internal friction.
My job is to make myself obsolete. You should move on within 3–6 months, fully equipped to handle life without me.
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If you want a guru, it won’t.
If you want a grounded thought partner who can handle your truth and build a plan with you — it likely will.
It takes two to tango, I do create the right conditions, showing the door, but it takes you to find the courage to walk through it, and having the discipline to want the best for yourself and keep using the tools in life.
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Standard: Starts at €800 for a 4 session journey (minimum to see results).
Comprehensive: Most clients invest between €3,950 – €6,000. This higher tier includes tailor-made travel arrangements (private/joint retreats) and specialized experts.
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If your current pattern is costing you sleep, presence, relationship quality, or direction — you’re already paying. This is about redirecting cost into something that gives you your life back.
“The goal of this journey is is to get better at what you love and discard what is suffocating you.”
Real Stories: 3 Case Snapshots
The Creative Director Moving to a Major MissionSituation: A rising designer took a Creative Director role at a luxury heritage brand. Imposter syndrome hit hard: "Will my progressive thinking destroy this legacy?"
What we did: A one-week immersion in Costa Rica to disconnect from the noise and reconnect with his essence.
Result: He didn't just survive; he thrived. Within a year, his products were on the cover of Wallpaper magazine. He leads with a vision that honors both the brand and his own truth.
The Agency Director Rebuilding His LifeSituation: Success at work, chaos at home. Compensating with alcohol, he lost connection with his family and eventually his passion for work. He felt lost in a haze.
What we did: In-person sessions in Amsterdam for stabilization, followed by a group retreat in Costa Rica to gain perspective from other men.
Result: He returned grounded. His relationship with his children was restored, and he launched a new business based on the vision he built during the retreat.
The Aspiring Writer Overcoming Complex TraumaSituation: Years of emotional withdrawal due to a difficult family history. He was stuck in "victim mode" despite years of therapy, unable to build lasting relationships or finish his book.
What we did: 12 weeks of online sessions (between Los Angeles and Amsterdam) with rigorous WhatsApp accountability and journal analysis.
Result: After 3 months, he finally shed the old skin of the victim. He found new energy and is currently writing his book.
Ready for the first step?
If this speaks to you, reach out for a 30–60 minute chemistry call.
No pressure. No pitch. Just a real conversation to see if we should work together.